Relationships Topic

[DW]

I tried to be more flirtatious. I didn't exactly get the results I wanted. ZV knows about that.

[Knil]

*thinks very hardly of what smily to add*

How I used it isn't exactly how it's supposed to be used, but it's a perfect woman.  One that's a "10", smart, independent, sweet, good personality, has had few, if any, sexual partners, and can be your future wife.

Sorry, but that is nearly impossible in todays time. Most women at my school, most women I have dated of this generation seem to make it a goal to have sex as early in their life as possible. Only after they do everything, do they look for a guy who will actually love them, and that my friend, annoys me to no end.
I felt really bad for this one chick in my class. She was new to the school, and nobody even talked to her, or said hi, or anything. Then, this girl comes to class, and she's like jaw-drop sekzy, and like everybody was crowding her, asking her name, and to hang out. Its just wrong, just so wrong ???

I wasn't stating how "possible" it was, I was just saying what is was.

I have a hard time saying 'sorry' to someone, much less saying 'hi' to a girl I like.  Don't get me wrong, I have people left and right trying to hook me up.  I'm like a 'k' I shoot many rounds hoping that one will hit the target.

[alical]

oh, come on... flirting is easy,      and fun!!

I beg to differ. :P

Don't be silly! Just act natural, and smile!

I myself am a stickler for compliments but never overdo it as the girl will think you're lying...

[Vaati]

I agree. Just be yourself and relax.  ;)

[Bboy94]

-_-

How come you can say stuff so much better than me Maggy? I have the same type of problem.

[MagmarFire]

-_-

How come you can say stuff so much better than me Maggy? I have the same type of problem.

It's a gift. :P Nah, I'm generally terrible at describing thing. I guess the right words came together at that moment.

Anyway, she was flirting with me again today. What's more, she's been saying that we've been going out for, like, a week, even though I never said yes to any probable courting question she asked me.

I don't know what to say or do about it, really. I've hardly ever been in a situation like this, so it's all very new to me. I guess it's a good thing I wasn't assigned homework today, though, because her sitting next to me and staring at me (flirting, no less) made it kind of hard to focus on the work I gave myself. :P

[alex]

im to scared to tell the guy i like that i actually like him... so im in a bit of a pickle :D (that is how the saying goes... right??)

[DW]

Hmm...that's how it always is...just write a letter or tell one of your friends to.

[Rev Rabies]

I agree. Just be yourself and relax.  ;)

another lie of the world, that never works

[DW]

Yeah. Just be what she wants and relax.

[MagmarFire]

another lie of the world, that never works

8)

Dr., how is it a lie? Being yourself is actually the best thing to do because it's essentially being honest. If you fake a personality, you're bound to screw it up as the relationship goes on. If you just be yourself, however, your girlfriend (I'm saying this from a general male perspective, just so you guys know) will know that you're being honest. I mean, let's face it: being yourself is easier to do than being Brad Pitt.

I also read somewhere that women have an uncanny sense of detection. If you have a facade around you, they can sniff it out. It may sound like a generalization, so a verification about that would be nice. ;)

[Zelda Veteran]

I agree. Just be yourself and relax.  ;)

another lie of the world, that never works

Well, if you act like a different person to win her over, she'll like you for that guy, and not the guy you really are. Do you want to put up an act all the time?

[Gamefreak]

I agree. Just be yourself and relax.  ;)

another lie of the world, that never works

I have to disagree as well.  What if every person in the world acted like somebody else to get girls?  

Don't act like you understand the world if you don't.  Don't base the whole word on your experiences.

[Baka Nezumi]

Seriously, just be yourself. It bugs the crap out of me to see a guy fake everything for a girl.
And, yes, a lot of girls can tell if you're faking. At least in my school.

[MagmarFire]

What if every person in the world acted like somebody else to get girls?  

Actually...I think that's relatively common. I also read somewhere that there are quite a lot of guys who just hang around and "hound" girls. For instance...

Then, this girl comes to class, and she's like jaw-drop sekzy, and like everybody was crowding her, asking her name, and to hang out.

I actually don't need to explain much here. It seems that the girls getting hit on by guys like in that example aren't given much of a moment's peace. So that's definitely a uniform tactic that a lot of guys use.