Relationships Topic

[MagmarFire]

Having a girlfriend is hard!? For me, just talking to someone I hardly know is hard!

Just for the heck of it, I'll reinterpret my last sentence algebraically. Let's just say that the probability of successfully scoring a good first impression from someone is P, the chances of getting into a relationship R with said person is 5% (the person is of the opposite gender), and that P and R are not mutually exclusive events. That means that the total probability T equals .05P.

For me, let's say that the chance for me scoring a good first impression is .5P and that the probability of getting into a relationship with the same person is the same (5%). That means the total probability for someone like me is .025P.

Okay, I'm done.

[Vaati]

I have no problem talking to people I don't know.  

[MagmarFire]

To prevent this from becoming a short post, I'm adding an insubordinate and subordinate clause to this: I'm jealous.

[MasterKeyX]

Well, the best advice I can give you, especially with girls, is to be yourself. Yes, sounds cliche, but it works. If you act differently, then the relationship begins on a bad note.

[Rev Rabies]

actually the last girl i dated i met her like 2 days before we started going out, it was at my church and for the longest time ive had large feelings for her best friend and she started talking to me and blah blah blah a few days later the girl i like said that this chick like me and wanted to go out with me. now here were my choices:

1.Go out with her and hope she dumps me eventually
because if i dump her im self destructing myself

2.Reject her(self-destruction for me)

so i picked number 1. we went out for a couple weeks then she dumped me, i thought everything was gonna be ok, but guess what, the girl i like rarely even talks to me anymore

[MagmarFire]

Well, the best advice I can give you, especially with girls, is to be yourself. Yes, sounds cliche, but it works. If you act differently, then the relationship begins on a bad note.

Yeah. Just be sure to wish me luck on finding somebody who's actually attracted to AS-like behaviors.

[Rev Rabies]

yea dude, all the girls i dated i hardly knew, i just acted like myself and they fell for me

infact, one of them despised me, but i appologized for whatever it was i did, then she kept talking to me about her bad relationships and i just listened and later on she asked me out

[Fishalicious]

If I be myself, I'll never get anyone. >: I can't talk to people I don't know very well.

If you and the person you like are too similar, then... well, you won't make a good couple, you know? Good friends, yes, but not a very good couple, I suppose. Opposites attract and similar things repel each other... in dating and science, that is.

[Baka Nezumi]

Lol 'tis funneh. But then you'll live a sad and lonley life... Like Gaara's lol.

Just because you don't get married doesn't mean you'll be sad and lonely. You can be perfectly happy alone. I know my two aunts are.

yea dude, all the girls i dated i hardly knew, i just acted like myself and they fell for me

infact, one of them despised me, but i appologized for whatever it was i did, then she kept talking to me about her bad relationships and i just listened and later on she asked me out

How could you go out with people you hardly know? Maybe I'm over-romanticising (sp?) things but, shouldn't you go out with someone you like?  

[Rev Rabies]

oh how i hate the good friends situation!

and fisk (im not sure of your gender, i appologize) you will indeed find someone, one day you will get lucky and they will just present themselves.

and i know what you mean about not talking to people you hardly know, i myself have that problem, just go up to someone you like and say, hey, whats up, something like that, and the conversation will either pick up from there or you might have to be a tad inquistive, ask some random questions

[Fishalicious]

oh how i hate the good friends situation!

and fisk (im not sure of your gender, i apologize) you will indeed find someone, one day you will get lucky and they will just present themselves.

and i know what you mean about not talking to people you hardly know, i myself have that problem, just go up to someone you like and say, hey, whats up, something like that, and the conversation will either pick up from there or you might have to be a tad inquisitive, ask some random questions

I'm a chick. But thanks for the advice. The problem is, the guy I like and I... well, neither of us are famous for speaking. >: Well, and I'm bad with conversations in general. They tend to be either stupid or... really awkward. >w>;

[DW]

If he has trouble talking as well, then he probably likes you too. Just saying.

What I hate is when they create these 'groups' and if you go out with this person and break up, suddenly all these people are off-limits because they were her friend or some crazy thing like that...

[Pale Dim]

I'm not a talker. I just listen to conversations between people. Oh well. Maybe I'll meet somebody in the Military, like my dad did. (Actually, they met in the supermarket. But they were also part of the same division. Yet my mothers father was the Colonel and commander of that division; Everybody's glad HE approved.)

[Momoko]

Oviously,um red or brown haired,I dont have taste in blondes.
Skinny, like duh!But not too skinny.I dont likemuch people at my school.
The girls are so immature!So I think anime/manga characters
are cuter!I rather would like someone like this girl
called Momoko Akatsutsumi,which appears in the manga of
Demashitaa!Pawa Pafu Garuzu Z!Or Sakura , from Naruto. Xp
This is Sakura:
This is Momoko:
...I cant decide!  

[Pale Dim]

Okay, uh, I understood a few things there, but could you explain to me why you went into a different language all of a sudden?