aww man... heartbreak.

[Commodore Axilon]

yes. not to mention addiction, then buying the stuff takes a huge lump of cash...

Marijuana itself is less addictive than alcohol. The reason people get hooked is because it's usually laced with other drugs.

plus, you run the risk of dyin gevery time you take it, you aren't in your mind, who knows what you would do.

The same thing applies to alcohol.

[DW]

I'm not saying getting drunk is good either. Look, this isn't what this topic is about, we should make a different topic for this if we want to discuss it.

[Commodore Axilon]

Yeah, I guess you're right. Still, doing pot isn't the evil thing that Zelda Veteran thinks it is.

[DW]

Okay. I need to set this straight. He isn't saying pot is evil and he hates her for it. He is saying she is putting the pot before him. I think noone should post until he gets back now, this is his topic, and we have been posting quite a bit of irrelevent material...lets just yell at each other on the battlefield...

[darkphantomime]

It's not the fact that she's putting pot before him; it's the fact that he's trying to force her to stop using pot, because of the percieved negativity of it.

Most of the negativity surrounding pot is due to propaganda, nothing else than propaganda. In fact, Pot is actually SAFER than quite a  few common and legal drugs, believe it or not.

[Howl]

AGAIN :'( How many times does this have to happen to me? Im so sick of it all!! Never again, I go through this everytime! I just found out that somebody i truly love does weed. When I asked her if she would stop, she said she's not changing. And she wont even tell me she loves me anymore. Im just so sick of it all.... I wont be on for a while...

*gives ZV a hug* *crys* STUPID ILLGEAL DRUGS

[Zelda Veteran]

Thanks howl! (hugs)

And thanks guys, but for the last time, It's not the weed that worries me! It's the fact that i begged her to stop, and she still hung on to the weed! She loves her weed more than me, which is what creeps me out. I've said it before, so before any of you start saying that slowly killing yourself isnt a bad thing, think about what im saying. Im going to college, getting a degree, and a high paying job so that I can support the woman I fall in love with, and possibly raise a family. I've been told by many reliable sources that smoking drugs doesent help that kind of dream.

[DW]

and those reliable sources are definitely reliable then.

[bgrugby]

I hear what you are saying ZV and it is unfortunate. When someone chooses an addiction over other people, especially those that care for them, it is tough. I have seen it before. You just have to wait it out and hope that she will realize that if she continues down her path she could easily end up alone and broke. Just have faith that she wises up. Plus we are all here for you bud.

[MagmarFire]

I'm behind of what brugby's saying 100%. Just keep trying to help her, pray, and hope for the best. And, once again, we're here for you, man. We've got your back.

"Sometimes the people that hurt us most...are the people who are closest to us." I really do not entirely remember where I heard that, but I definitely agree with it.

[Zelda Veteran]

Whoever said that is right. It's because a heart wound is much worse than a flesh and blood wound. It can have devistating effects, and can result in suicide. Good thing Im stable enough not to commit suicide. Some people commit suicide over the stupidest things. And I wonder what she does when she's depressed. I have a family like you guys to fall back on when Im down. I wonder what she does... I think it would be a good idea to call her and sort things out tomorrow morning.

[bgrugby]

Well if she is anything like me that is probably when she smokes the most. I drink the most when I am depressed and I know I have a drinking problem. However, if you really want to talk to her, do not call her up go see her face to face, maybe then she can not only hear how much you care for her but she can see it in your face.

[MasterKeyX]

ZV, I know the response is a little late, but I just wanna add my thoughts to the mix.

I'm terribly sorry to hear what you're going through, but that doesn't mean that it can never be reversed. Try and talk to her some more; try and get her to realize that waht she's doing is incredibly stupid and possibly dangerous. You can be the one to save her from it, ZV, just never EVER give up hope, always keep trying.

And, as I'm a big Christian, I will say this: Pray everyday for her to wisen up, and know that my prayers and everyone else's here will be with you as well.

[darkphantomime]

I've said it before, so I'll say it again. YOU ALL SOUND LIKE ONE BIG AFTER SCHOOL SPECIAL! Heh, You can't force people to change, gotta realize that, it's not that she chose pot over him; it's that ZV believes the bad things about pot. Heh, he's making effort for something that won't work out in the end. Face up to it, If you think you can make people change instantly, and restrict them from living their lives however they will, of course she's going to want to get away from you. Take my advice man, forget about her, heh, if you're really so concerned, forget about the whole thing.

Otherwise, you'll be stuck in the same rut. Neither you nor her are mature enough to realize what's going on, you're naive thinking you can force people to stop something like that. CHange comes from within. No point in going about this still.

[Zelda Veteran]

You know what DPM, Im not listening to your advice. I know you understand, because I've talked to you over AIM, and you know what this is about, yet you choose to criticize the people who try to help.