Relationships Topic

[MagmarFire]

It really sucks when a guy I'm having an intelligent conversation with has a girlfriend, because the gf always assumes I'm trying to "steal him". Gawsh.

I hate situations like that. Sure, I've never encountered one like that, but who would like it, whether they experienced ones like that or not. Paranoid people who think that their dates are going to be stolen when they're being social are quite sad, really. :-X

[MatthewThief]

*sigh* i cant blame them... i'de be the same way

[Zelda Veteran]

Yeah, there's this one girl who's always hangin up on me at our school, and who I'm guessing is her boy friend gives me dirty looked :-* I don't even know her all that well XD

[Bboy94]

I met the perfect girl at my new school.


And then I woke up.



:(

Well at least I get a fresh start for high school.

[Takun]

Hahaha, "then I woke up".

Yeah thats got to be anoying. Hangin out with someone who's girl/boyfriend is the jealous type.

[MatthewThief]

heh i guess im annoying then

[Fishalicious]

Wow, this topic hasn't been touched in a while...

-clears throat- I'm still not dating. So this is kind of pointless, haha...

But, I have been asked out by two people. One, I rejected because I just didn't feel right in a relationship with... call me a **, but... well, I prefer platonic friendship over dating. Oh, and the other one? Well, she was a crazy-stalker person who I was dating because she said so. >_> Yeeeah. Some rather awkward moments there...

I've decided that dating isn't really that attractive. I mean, sure, they may want to ask me out, but they don't know my bad... habits, if you will. I'm undatable, I guess. I've heard that from several people... I'm just too... out there, I guess.



_{well, I did go to school in that bunny hoodie...}

[Zelda Veteran]

Well, dating can rawk, if its with the right person. I'm not dating anymore either, but its only because I'm afraid of having my heart cracked open again :-*

[DW]

We're still doing well, but have incredibly bad luck. Such as all the dances being cancelled when we've made plans :-*

[MagmarFire]

*raises hand* Still single. :'(

You know...sometimes I feel that I'm going to stay that way. Okay, quite often I feel that I'm going to stay that way. I hope not, but...I just wish that there were someone whom I could talk to, to see what I'm doing wrong. But alas, I've had no luck.

[Zelda Veteran]

I don't dance, I just hang out around the doors with my best friends, and point out the nerds and fat ppl :P
Its mean, but really funny when you're with the right people. Its different from making fun of mentally handicapped people, because they had no control over what happened to them. Its the people that can't go a second without a fork in their mouth, or the people who can't LIVE without WoW that had control about who they are. Its easy to tell who is big boned, and who is just a flubber-nugget.

[DW]

Mags and Fisk, I was the same way, just wait until you DO find someone.

[MagmarFire]

Say....

Shika, how did you meet Jo in the first place, how did you get to know her, and how did you ultimately get the courage to ask her out? Did you have a specific process, or did you wing it?

And do you have a hammer to hit me with for being so overbearing? :P

[Fishalicious]

Like I said, I'd prefer a platonic relationship. I think I'm afraid of commitment. Though I do kind of need someone to tell me I'm pretty, I guess. Yes, that does sound stupid, but I like it when people tell me the truth. Even if they said I was hideous, as long as they weren't a total ** about it, I'd be happy. Because, honestly? I don't like how I look that much. But I love compliments (though I never know how to respond to them) and stuff like that. (not... that I get that much, actually. though I was called cute a lot in the bunny hoodie.)

[DW]

Say....

Shika, how did you meet Jo in the first place, how did you get to know her, and how did you ultimately get the courage to ask her out? Did you have a specific process, or did you wing it?

And do you have a hammer to hit me with for being so overbearing? :P

Well, we both went on a class trip to DC, although we didn't talk much, and I thought I was way too immature for her. So I kind of tried not to think about her throughout Freshman year, and she ended up being taken by someone else anyways. I had a lot of crap happen to me relationship-wise, and I realized that I wanted somebody like Jo. She was still going out with that other guy, but I still talked to her every now and then, although not much more than hi, because I was afraid of embarrasing myself. They ended up breaking up because he never paid any attention to her, and I couldn't help but hang around her whenever I could. I just loved to be around her. So, that went on for two months or so, then we started talking about stuff, and I was trying to figure out if she liked me or not, because one of my friends kept saying that a bunch of other guys liked her, and that she always talked about how I always annoyed her. (This is the same friend who set me up with the first disastrous relationship :-*) I found support in a few of my other friends, and they encouraged me, and I went to school early (To 'make up a test' ::)) and got a flower from the store across the street. I emptied my backpack and carried all my stuff with me that day so I wouldn't have to open it, put the flower in my backpack so it wouldn't fall over and spill the water, and left a note to my locker partner saying not to touch it. Then, at the end of the day, I went to talk to her as usual and said I had to get something out of my locker. So we went over there, and one of my friends started asking her questions to distract her while I opened the locker. Then I tapped her on the shoulder, gave her the flower, and asked. I'm pretty sure she said yes based on how she acted afterwards, but I blacked out for a second :P Seriously. :-[ So yeah, she got a lot of reactions towards the flower and everything. She was happy. I was ecstatic.

Mostly, I guess it was because I got a few friends to support and help me.