Relationships Topic

[Bboy94]

I almost have one. But I'm confuseded. How can you tell about les filles(girls)?

[MagmarFire]

Ah, so you went for the indirect approach for the first period of time, tried to build up momentum, and then switched to the direct approach? Valuable info! Thank you! :D

However...

Mostly, I guess it was because I got a few friends to support and help me.

That's probably where I could use the help.

[DW]

Find a few friends who you trust unconditionally, and just ask them what they think of a girl. BTW, pick girls, they're more sensitive to that and won't poke fun at you and stuff.

[Rev Rabies]

yay! i love this topic!

one of my best friends who is a girl is helping me, but she is way to defensive towards me so basically no girls make it through her very fine filter

[MagmarFire]

Find a few friends who you trust unconditionally, and just ask them what they think of a girl. BTW, pick girls, they're more sensitive to that and won't poke fun at you and stuff.

May take a while; I'm new at my school. Even if I weren't new, it probably still would be hard because I'd also need courage to talk about it with somebody. I guess I find it most effective for them to ask me about that kind of stuff. I dislike taking the initiative and talking about it. :-*

[Zelda Veteran]

good God, this one chick won't stay AWAY from me!!!! >:( >:( >:(
Its my ex again, and she's crying to me, because the guy she dumped me for cheated on her. I don't want to be a jerk, but no matter what we go through, she won't stay the hell out of my life :-*
I don't know why, or HOW, but I still... I still kinda... I mean I can't forget about her if she doesn't leave me alone, but...

[DW]

Hmm...have her told you everything YOU feel about what SHE did to YOU and ehst your point of view is?

[MagmarFire]

Let me put this in a video game perspective, ZV: she set your heart at 300% damage, chaingrabbed it, spiked it, threw a Bob-omb at it, and finished it off with the Home Run Bat.

In a non-obsessive perspective, she's now getting a taste of her own medicine, and from what I understand, she deserves it. Letting her come back into your life is just giving her another opportunity smash your soul to pieces. But hey, if you know that she's not just trying to get you to suck up to her and leave you vulnerable, then what do we have to worry about?

On the other hand, I still think that if you give her the chance, then the consequences will only replicate. I'd try to resist it. But this is coming from a guy who never had his heart broken in a relationship.

[MasterKeyX]

Hmmm... a bit intesne and rough there, eh Maggy? Though from what I have heard I think you're right in syaing what you've said.

And just to throw this out there... I mean the majority of us are teenagers. What do we really know about love? Do we know anyhting? We're so young an naive...

[Zelda Veteran]

Let me put this in a video game perspective, ZV: she set your heart at 300% damage, chaingrabbed it, spiked it, threw a Bob-omb at it, and finished it off with the Home Run Bat.

In a non-obsessive perspective, she's now getting a taste of her own medicine, and from what I understand, she deserves it. Letting her come back into your life is just giving her another opportunity smash your soul to pieces. But hey, if you know that she's not just trying to get you to suck up to her and leave you vulnerable, then what do we have to worry about?

On the other hand, I still think that if you give her the chance, then the consequences will only replicate. I'd try to resist it. But this is coming from a guy who never had his heart broken in a relationship.

That really put things in perspective for me magz. ::) :P
And just so you know (for those of you who are like "why the hell is ZV still considering this?") love is blinding. It does things to a guy that he can't describe, no matter how many years of literary school he's had. When you really love(ed) someone it blinds you to reality. I had myself set on avoiding her at all costs, and now look: we're talking again.

I just logged on to Aim to see if you were there so I could tell you I had a dream about you...and me.
The type of dream around the lines of what happened at Barry's house on that ice day, talk about it later!
I found that kitten a home, her name is poket now!!

Now look at that. She acts as if my heart was never in shambles. I really don't know what to make of this situation. :-* And don't anyone ask just what did happen at barry's house, because you will be severely ignored XD

PS: Also, anyone who talks to me over AIM, don't say ONE WORD about this, because my mom reads everything I type, and everything that was sent to me over AIM conversations later when I'm not around (the PC saves it). Sometimes they treat me like a total ex convict. ???

[TP Zelda]

Let me put this in a video game perspective, ZV: she set your heart at 300% damage, chaingrabbed it, spiked it, threw a Bob-omb at it, and finished it off with the Home Run Bat.

In a non-obsessive perspective, she's now getting a taste of her own medicine, and from what I understand, she deserves it. Letting her come back into your life is just giving her another opportunity smash your soul to pieces. But hey, if you know that she's not just trying to get you to suck up to her and leave you vulnerable, then what do we have to worry about?

On the other hand, I still think that if you give her the chance, then the consequences will only replicate. I'd try to resist it. But this is coming from a guy who never had his heart broken in a relationship.

That really put things in perspective for me magz. ::) :P
And just so you know (for those of you who are like "why the hell is ZV still considering this?") love is blinding. It does things to a guy that he can't describe, no matter how many years of literary school he's had. When you really love(ed) someone it blinds you to reality. I had myself set on avoiding her at all costs, and now look: we're talking again.

I just logged on to Aim to see if you were there so I could tell you I had a dream about you...and me.
The type of dream around the lines of what happened at Barry's house on that ice day, talk about it later!
I found that kitten a home, her name is poket now!!

Now look at that. She acts as if my heart was never in shambles. I really don't know what to make of this situation. :-* And don't anyone ask just what did happen at barry's house, because you will be severely ignored XD

PS: Also, anyone who talks to me over AIM, don't say ONE WORD about this, because my mom reads everything I type, and everything that was sent to me over AIM conversations later when I'm not around (the PC saves it). Sometimes they treat me like a total ex convict. ???

Awww poor Sasori-donno!! I'd say to forget about her, maybe talk to her a little bit. I dunno, do what you want to do. I can't control you. (My dad can, or so he says.)

Aww! Demo... demo!! I wanted to know what happened at Barry's house.  :'( JK JK

[MagmarFire]

And just so you know (for those of you who are like "why the hell is ZV still considering this?") love is blinding. It does things to a guy that he can't describe, no matter how many years of literary school he's had. When you really love(ed) someone it blinds you to reality. I had myself set on avoiding her at all costs, and now look: we're talking again.

Nah, I'm not thinking the thought in parantheses. I, as well as everyone else here, know it's hard for you. After all, you're not weak willed--whenever you go down, you bring yourself back up again. We've all seen it time and time again. It's a good trait to have, ZV. :)

That in itself further proves your point that love is a powerful thing. Very powerful. If you find it hard to resist now, then very few could've resisted it if anyone else were in your shoes back then! Unfortunately, it is indeed fickle, and it can all backfire painfully; I guess in other words, you loved her so much that when she broke away from you, it was like all the love you gave her turned against you.

. . .

Sorry, this is just my interpretation of it. If I'm wrong in anything that I said, ZV, please correct me.

[Zelda Veteran]

And just so you know (for those of you who are like "why the hell is ZV still considering this?") love is blinding. It does things to a guy that he can't describe, no matter how many years of literary school he's had. When you really love(ed) someone it blinds you to reality. I had myself set on avoiding her at all costs, and now look: we're talking again.

Nah, I'm not thinking the thought in parantheses. I, as well as everyone else here, know it's hard for you. After all, you're not weak willed--whenever you go down, you bring yourself back up again. We've all seen it time and time again. It's a good trait to have, ZV. :)

That in itself further proves your point that love is a powerful thing. Very powerful. If you find it hard to resist now, then very few could've resisted it if anyone else were in your shoes back then! Unfortunately, it is indeed fickle, and it can all backfire painfully; I guess in other words, you loved her so much that when she broke away from you, it was like all the love you gave her turned against you.

. . .

Sorry, this is just my interpretation of it. If I'm wrong in anything that I said, ZV, please correct me.

Thats exactly what happened Magmar. She took all the love I had poured out to her over the years, and shoved it back down my throat. It hurts, believe me, and the way you described it hit the dot. And yeah, you have a good point Gaara, but... I just don't know.

[darkphantomime]

So you're telling me that 'love' is equivalent to vomit? EEEEK!

*Point made from ZV saying 'shove my love down my throat'*

[Vaati]

good God, this one chick won't stay AWAY from me!!!! >:( >:( >:(
Its my ex again, and she's crying to me, because the guy she dumped me for cheated on her. I don't want to be a jerk, but no matter what we go through, she won't stay the hell out of my life :-*
I don't know why, or HOW, but I still... I still kinda... I mean I can't forget about her if she doesn't leave me alone, but...

Here's my advice to you: Don't be afraid to tell her off. Tell her it's her fault she dumped you. It was her mistake, not yours. Tel her you're sorry about the other guy but you don't like her anymore. (If you don't.) She needs to learn to move on.