Relationships Topic

[MagmarFire]

Maybe I should take up theatre. :P

But this really is quite the dilemma... However, a major part of dating is getting to know the other person. How will you know the "goofy" one is never serious unless you take her out? (I'm not being pushy or anything; just making a point and using her as an example.) But of course, if she's not serious when you want her to be, try to be blunt with her and say that you need some seriousness in that point in time.

Again, it's just an example. The point I'm making is maybe you should kill two birds with one stone: go out with one of the other girls and bide your time. Or just wait it out a little while until Jo makes up her mind and then make whatever move you choose.

[DW]

You should take up theater...but stay away from the horny techs. Really. They sleep with everyone and cause all the Drama.

The thing is, I really don't have the resources to take anyone out. I am going to a play tonight though with some of the people from Brigadoon, the third girl included, so I'll get to spend more time with her then. I thought a lot about it last night, I think I'm giving up on Jo. We really didn't have much in common.

[Zelda Veteran]

I know how it is Saber... I feel like giving up on my ex sometimes. I get all these offers from other girls at my school, but... I still love her so much. I can't help but stay awake some nights wondering if she feels the same. She's an evil genius, believe me, I've seen her at work. It wouldn't be any task to her to make some love-struck guy think he's loved back. She said things though that made me swell... If you want to hear some of the things she said that made my heart go nuts in my chest, just ask. For now, though, I'll get back to my advise for our dear friend SNH.

Dude, give her time. Thats all I can say. You can't get emotionally attached to someone, and just drop them, and not feel an empty space. The thing is, do things with her that no other guy has. Say things that no one else would... Make an everyday thing remind her of you... and before you know it, she realizes something is missing.

Thats kind of what happened on my end, and thats most likely the reason we're back together. What you need to do, is find another girl, not to get at Jo's weak spot, but to take your mind elsewhere. Depression isn't good for you. It changes who you are, and I get that all the time. Just give it time dude, and pray. I'll keep you in my prayers bro, just hang tight. God will make a miracle happen. He did it for me. He'll do it for you.

[darkphantomime]

I... don't quite follow. Shika didn't exactly make any real implication at being depressed, did he?

People have to move on and around if they're going to have a successful love life. You can't stay with your first girl forever, heheh.

[Zelda Veteran]

True. Most say you'll find your true lover in college.

[MagmarFire]

That's what I heard, too. Here's hoping it's true... :-\

But hey, if ZV says to give it time, Shika, I'll support it. He IS the "Love Guru," after all. :P

[DW]

I'm not trying to get at Jo, we're friends, we just realized we really don't have that much in common. I'm not just dropping her, it took me three weeks to give up. I'm not depressed either, just a bit unsure of which direction to take.

[Baka Nezumi]

Shika, get to know the other two girls better. After you've seen what seems to be a rather good representation of the girl(s) as a person throughout, then choose.

I dunno if I've said this before, but a mentally retarded (literaly) boy likes me. I've told him to back off (somewhat discreetly sp?) and gotten my Martial Arts teacher to make sure he backs off but.... it has gone too far. He stares at me constantly and even tried to kiss me.

[DW]

I'm getting to know them, the incredibly goofy one actually can be serious, I found out. The thing is, now I feel obligated to the other one, because she calls me a lot and I try to help her with her problems...I don't know what she's expecting...

You need to talk to his parents/supervisor and tell them that he needs to stop--politely, of course. They've probably had this problem before.

[Fishalicious]

I have no advice for you guys, I'm terribly sorry... I guess, Baka, you could ask his parents to get him to stop.

Shika: I hope you're happy with whatever choice you make.

I personally have an issue. There's a girl who likes me. I'm not gay (not that I have anything against it; I'm actually quite supportive.) and I don't want to just be like "OH HI BTW IM NOT GAY. :|"

But... honestly, it's really annoying being around her. She constantly hugs me, and I'm... just not a very huggy person. >_> and she gets mad at me for not letting her touch my things, or when I'm reading a "normal" book and not manga. And, she has this one trait that's a personal pet peeve of mine; she wears shirts and merchandise of bands/games she doesn't even like.

Augh... what should I do?

[DW]

She sounds like an uber control freak...Just give it to her straight. Tell her that you don't appreciate the way she acts towards you. You don't have to say it's because you aren't gay, but you just don't appreciate her being rude like that.

[alical]

I say Fisk drop subtle hints like " OMG Don't ya just HATE it when people wear shirts of band/games they don't like?" &c, but I have never been in a similar situation so i wouldn't know ^^
Ha there's a girl in my form who is engaged to a guy who is about 20. She's getting married Christmas day 2009.

[DW]

How old is your form again/

[alical]

I'm in Year 10 so it's 14 and 15 year olds.
She turned 15 a few days after me which was abou a week ago.

[MagmarFire]

Geez, the girl's that young!? :o

Well, in olden times, people did start marrying at that age, but...there's quite an age difference there. :-X