Relationships Topic

[MagmarFire]

Then...maybe the best thing to do is say nothing in particular? Just hang out?

[Aureliano]

Well I'm still communicating with the 22 year old, and we are still doing the whole long distance thing.  I am glad actually because all my past relationships were based on the physical, and this relationship has matured me emotionally.  I now see that being physical is important, but not as much as a strong emotional bond.  Also I have a clearer idea as to what I want in both my professional life and love life

And Fishy, Mag's idea is a good one because then there is less pressure on both sides and you get to feel each other out.

[The Glamour Nazi]

Well me and Kate are together now. And just so you know Akumann wasn't a guy, it was her.

We talk to each other all the time on the phone and we try to see each other as much as possible.

Anyway good luck with all your guys' relationship/

[cacturnerules]

Aight, here's how it went yesterday.

Nicole: Hey, Zack. Can I have a hug?
Me: Sure. *coughYEHScough* (I didn't actually say that...)
Nicole: Alright, bye!
Me: Actually... Are you free this weekend?
Nicole: Uuuuuuh... not really.
Me: What about Friday? (Which is now today.)(This was yesterday.)
Nicole: nnnnnnnnnno.
Me: Alright, then.
Nicole: Are you asking me out?
Me: Yeah.
Nicole: Ok, bye! *Scurries off*



...I'm not really sure what to walk away with after that conversation. 

[HylianHero92]

It's called "rejection" and is frowned upon in most societies.

[cacturnerules]

I thought there was a difference between the person saying no because they don't like you, and saying no because they can't.
It still could be the first one, though.

Think I should ask her again? Wait, I'm going away Friday through this weekend. Oh well.

[MagmarFire]

After going the first time, I wouldn't ask her. You don't want to make it look like you're forcing yourself on her. That doesn't mean you shouldn't talk to her, though.

[DW]

Heh. Some friends want to be really involved in who their friends date. Kind of amusing, really.

[cacturnerules]

That's exactly her friends.

I always crack up after talking to them.

[The Glamour Nazi]

Okay you single or newly coupled people. here are some tips based on my experience.

1: Flattery works

2: Talk to them as much as possible without being clingy (very hard to do.)

3: Find stuff you both like.

4: Be ready to change for her. I had to get rid of my mustache for my girlfreind and I haven't regretted it.

Okay I'll come back with more tips later.

[FunTykoon]

That's exactly her friends.

I always crack up after talking to them.

When kids at my school ask eachother out, normally they don't say, "Want to go to the movies?" or "Want to go to the dance?"
They say "You wanna go out?" and then it spreads in rumors that they are dating. After about a week, they start asking them to go places.

Of couse, we are all 13 and 14 years old.

AND WERE FROM ALABAMER' ( I'm serious.)

Edit: Decided to give my relationship status.

Well, I am single, first off. I have two girls I can choose from.

Girl 1: Alot of rumors appear about this girl. A couple of idiots have taken advantage of her. Has small mental problems.

Girl 2: Really, really nice. She isn't a **** like most girls in my grade.
Stops people from bullying other kids.


Girl 1 is single, Girl 2 is not. Aye Carumba! (spellcheck please)

I'm fairly sure that word isn't allowed. Fix'd. -Twilight Wolf

[cacturnerules]

I have a date on saturday with the girl at the movies. 

[FunTykoon]

Dats cool. Girl 2 is single, so I'm thinking about asking her out.

[MagmarFire]

Ah, good luck, you two! Hope it all goes well!

[cacturnerules]

She got walking namonia this weekend, so we didn't go.