Relationships Topic

[DW]

Yes, I know...that phrase has no meaning anymore the way people use it.

I hate to say this, but probably nobody's going to show an interest in you unless you make it known that you're interested in them...

[Fishalicious]

I know no one would show an interest in me until I show an interest in them, but... well, honestly, I don't care. My experience with people is very... bad, so I'd really more likely screw it up than get a date.

But... I don't mind. When I find the person I think is right, then I'll show an interest. Right now, my first priority is to be able to stand people for longer than a few minutes.

[darkphantomime]

I'm pretty sure that you'd more than be able to stand someone like me.

:D

[Rev Rabies]

indeed it does

i went to a girls house yesterday, i was bending down to plug a cable and she grabbed my behind, we have one of those friendships where we just do stuff like that even though there is nothing between us

even though i like her -_-

[DW]

I've seen a lot of those...I have seen more butt slaps when we were making Anne Frank than I cared to see.

Anyways, Vaati, wouldn't it help to at least try so you have some experience, and don't mess it up when the perfect person comes?

[darkphantomime]

When you get as old as me, you start to lose interest in all girls of sexual persuasions. By that point in time, you've met so many girls that there's simply no point in having interest in a single  one of them.

PS: I have NOT been Neutered.

[Fishalicious]

...I'm Fisk, not Vaati. ^^;

Anyways, yeah, but I'm just really uncomfortable in your average situation... ugh, people scare me, to be honest. I can't stand touching, speaking, anything, really. Skin is filthy...

[DW]

Hmmm....really....? Dislike of social interaction...that's actually a sign of autism. I dunno, anyways, are you really afraid of their skin?

[darkphantomime]

I'm socially maflormed too... Quite antisocial. Not always a clear sign of autism, but also general Anxiety disorder among other things...

*coughs*

*Has Anxiety Disorder*

[Rev Rabies]

Yes, I know...that phrase has no meaning anymore the way people use it.

I hate to say this, but probably nobody's going to show an interest in you unless you make it known that you're interested in them...

that isnt entirely true shika, all the girls i have expressed my interest for shot me down

[Fishalicious]

I'm not afraid of the skin; it's the motive behind the movement.

I'm just... really afraid of physical abuse, and... well, my relationships with people haven't been the greatest. /: I flinch at everything anyways.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I get a bad vibe from people. I'm really uncomfortable with people...

[Vaati]

Hmmm....really....? Dislike of social interaction...that's actually a sign of autism. I dunno, anyways, are you really afraid of their skin?

That doesn't nessisarily mean that they're autistic. Some people just aren't social. I know I wasn't with my sisters when I was little, except I talked to everyone when I went to the park.

I have a crush on this one boy at school (No, it's not Vaati  :P ) but he's kind of like me where he's not really into dating, just a good friendship. He smiled at me at my sister's graduation...

[DW]

Well, if you two like each other, maybe you can break down that wall.

and Fisk, there are ways to tell if a guy's going to be like that. Unfortunately, most girls don't know those ways. However, one of the best tools you have is the past. Talk to the guys past girlfriends and stuff and see what they did.

[Vaati]

Well, if you two like each other, maybe you can break down that wall.

I was thinking about that. Thanks.  :)

[Fishalicious]

I know how to tell if someone's going to be a good person or a bad person. Believe it or not, I'm not that naive when it comes to dating.

Honestly, though, I'd rather get to know the person before I date them. I don't want to walk up to some stranger I barely know and say "hey, wanna go on a date?" lots of problems could arise from that...

Though, what is a boyfriend, really? Someone to hang around with? It's like a friend you can kiss...