Relationships Topic

[alical]

I'm about 5'5 maybe a bit more haven't been measured in ages, I'm about the same height as most girls in my Year at school.
I love my height though, a guy being taller than me is a huge plus, I like to feel protected, that's why i have a HUGE thing for broad shoulders as well (and I'm not too fond of lanky guys), and being my height nearly all guys are at least a little taller (except for the short ones haha), and it means I can wear gorgeous heels without looking like a giant.
And on Intimacy: I totally agree with Brizzy, I think it's very important but to varying degrees.

[Brizzy]

I also want to add that I do agree with Shika, too much dependancy on intimacy is bad. You start to need it and you can't let it go. No matter how bad the situation is.. you can't bring yourself to leave them and leave that. It's just easier to stay with them then have to start all over with someone else.

Dang, I am not sure if I said what I wanted to say or even if I said it right. 

[DW]

And it can make you feel more for someone than you really should. If a relationship can't survive without physical contact...not saying it shouldn't not have some, just...if it's necessary, then it may not be a good relationship.

Then again, if you feel strongly enough about someone...I guess there are times when you should take the risk. I always held myself back so much...hmm. I guess I've been too conservative, too afraid of taking risks. Too logical instead of emotional, I guess.

[Fishalicious]

My boyfriend's actually 2 inches taller than me, and it works out perfectly. :3 I dunno, couples are more... aesthetically pleasing when the male is taller than the female, but I don't like it when there's a huge height difference (like, even 5" is a little much in my opinion) because... there's a gap.

I'd feel like a jerkface for saying I don't really like guys shorter than me (5' 11" - 6') but I don't like to be the dominating personality (which gets pushed on me a lot because I'm rather thick-skinned & tall) in a relationship, and that tends to happen. I'm actually quite the opposite.

Hm... well, to be honest, my relationship hasn't gone very far since the last post in here. We're quite content, but I'm still quite a bit distant- on Valentine's day I told him I'd give him a hug, and that's sadly a pretty big leap for me.

[Hi no Seijin]

What does this have to do with relationships?

[MasterKeyX]

I just recently acquired a new girlfriend. By recently I mean about three months ago. I haven't actually been here.  She's pretty spunky and super. Way too hyper and happy some of the time, but hey. It gets me out of my darker moods.

[DW]

And you've apparently been having a lot of drama with your ex still >.>

I'm still kind of amazed at how quickly you let go and went to the new girl. Was your other relationship not that serious or what?

[MasterKeyX]

It was actuallyreally serious. If you're wodnering, I still have random breakdowns over her from time to time. I just recently achieved some form of closure. Hopefully it'll stop.

[MagmarFire]

Yeah, hopefully. But it is good that you've moved on at least a little bit.

[DW]

If you're wodnering, I still have random breakdowns over her from time to time.

Yeah, I know what you mean. Well, that answers a few of the questions that were bugging me then.

[jdubroxs]

You know what i love? when you really like a girl, and they hit on you and give you signs, and you get ready to ask them out...then they start dating someone else just like that, and break up with them two days after it started... i am really mad at that girl for doing that, i don't know if i still have the same feelings for her anymore... but i still think about her, but I try not to, and yea, it makes me mad...

[Vaati]

I know most relationships are first based off of crushes, but if she's really someone worth loving, then she wouldn't do that.

Or perhaps she could very well, just be like me where I want to be friends with some boys, but not boyfriend and girlfriend, and the ones who wind up liking me feel heartbroken because they thought I was being kind to them because I liked them like that, when in the end, I just want to have some friends of both genders. Just friends, really.
But, of course, if she was really flirting with you. I mean really acting like a tart, and now she's just ignoring you and acting like "Ew! Why would I go out with you?!", then I say up hers and throw her in the trash.

[alical]

I agree with Vaati on the point about how irritating it can be when guys mistake kindness for a crush.

People go on at us girls for being fleety or showing mixed signs when it's never entirely our fault. It's often because the majority of guys are completely dense when it comes to reading us. They either don't get that we like them, even when we make it blindingly obvious. Or they mistake simple acts of friendship as something more.
I don't mind that guys dont always know what you mean, it can be cute, it's just when people start accusing girls of being manipulative or leading people on that it makes me angry.   

[jdubroxs]

And then after i told her about this, she didn't tell me her mom doesn't let her date senior's or junior's. yeah i was defently mad at that.

[Pyrgusfinn]

Yeah I definitely agree with the girls. I flirted with one guy for like 2 years straight and he never noticed.  I just gave up on him after that.  The other day he asked me why I'm not as friendly anymore and I just stared at him, thinking to myself: you are an idiot. haha.