Relationships Topic

[Vaati]

This is the thing: she HAS told him "no", but he's just way too attached to her for his own good. I know what the pressure of knowing someone is infatuated with you and you feel nothing for them. It's stressful!! When the boy who liked me wrote me a love poem about how I was "an angel" and how when he looked at me all the bad things went away, I started crying when I got home because I was stressed of the situation.

And as her sister, I feel it's my duty to help him realize he has to let go.

[FunTykoon]

 Well, if someone was super-dooper in love with me, I'd certianly go out with them. It seems to me like you dont like him because of his looks. They is a saying if you keep trying you will succeed, so maybe he is sticking to that.

Question: Is love where you would want to spend the rest of your life with this person. Is it where you feel nervous, happy, and caring when you see them? Can you fake yourself into love? What if that person doesn't love you back? Can you keep trying? Does love prevail?( as in if you love someone will it all work out)

[Vaati]

She hates his personality. It's like Meg said in Hercules "Well, you know men. They think "No" means "Yes" and "Get lost" means "Take me, I'm yours"." If you keep pestering a girl (especially the way the guy who likes my sis does) she's only going to hate him more. Common sense, people!  And you can't force love, FunTykoon. You seem more ready and you'll jump on the opportunity when it comes. But she doesn't want that. "Not ready" means "not ready". It doesn't mean "Oohhh. I'm too nervous!" or "I only like them for their looks!" It's a plain "not ready." Nothing more, nothing less.

And as for me, you don't seem to be able to grasp the fact that I do NOT date! It grosses me the HECK out!  ??? I don't even want to marry. Who says the world revolves around romance, anyway?! Susan Boyle is in her 40s and she's never gotten married or been kissed.
Oh, look at me! I'm a successful honours student with a hobby, a dream for a career, but oh no! I'm going to die because I DON'T HAVE A FRIGGEN' BOYFRIEND THAT I DON'T NEED!

I'm sorry for the outburst, but love is a very sensitive subject. I believe strongly that love is barely worth it. Unless it's like, Vaati, or something, then maybe. That's right! I'm still a hardcore VFG! What are you gonna do?!  :P But anyway, this is about my sister not me. Love isn't a problem for me because the guy who was obsessed with me has calmed down but we're still friends. I'm not worried if I'll ever marry, because...well...I think people are disgusting. My sis thinks different. She wants to have a relationship someday when she's ready, but not yet. You can't change that.

[FunTykoon]

Question: Is love where you would want to spend the rest of your life with this person. Is it where you feel nervous, happy, and caring when you see them? Can you fake yourself into love? What if that person doesn't love you back? Can you keep trying? Does love prevail?( as in if you love someone will it all work out)

Okay, can someonw answer this for me?

[MagmarFire]

^ I'm rather sure that the answer to all of those depends on the person in question.

[Uximadesk]

You shouldn't really try to search for that answer, because "love" means something different to virtually every person in the world, maybe you should try to look for that answer yourself.
In my experience, people must put effort in their relationship if it is not based solely on sexual attraction.

[FunTykoon]

Is it possible for a 13 year old to be in love?

[TP Zelda]

Is it possible for a 13 year old to be in love?

Yesh...I think. I guess. *Thinks*
...Ya XD
I'm not sure but since I'm almost 13 I guess I can sorta answer that question XDD

Is it where you feel nervous, happy, and caring when you see them?

And yeah, I guess that's a good way to describe it.
I don't think it's the same kind of love you have for your parents, though. XD

Sorry for barging in, just kinda bored is all XDD


And I say looks matter little, it's what's on the inside that counts.  :)

Kay I'm done. Baii
Sorry if this is spam-ish in any way D:

[Rinku]

I think it is possible but some people tend to just get very emotionally/physically attached and mistake it for love.

[FunTykoon]

I think it is possible but some people tend to just get very emotionally/physically attached and mistake it for love.

I'm pretty sure that being emotionally attached is love. And I have no pyshical attraction to her.

[Fishalicious]

I broke up with my boyfriend on Thursday... it just wasn't working out at all. He hasn't talked to me since, even though I want to still be friends.

I'm not torn up about it at all, which is probably a bad thing, but it was mostly a one-sided relationship to begin with. I'm not very loving. /:

[MagmarFire]

I'm glad to see that it seems you're taking it well. ;)

How well's he taking it, I wonder?

[FunTykoon]

Girls, would you find it wierd if a guy came up to you and complimented you on something just to engage you in a conversation?
I mean, I pretty good friends with the girl I like, its just that I need a womans advice on this. What about asking for your phone number. I had hear phone number, but when I lemonade-tsunami'd all over it, I lost all of my numbers. I was thinking about asking for it again.

[alical]

I suppose it depends what it was, a simple "You look nice today" can be very sweet, but often with compliments they can come across a bit creepy or sarcastic, just make sure to be sincere.
And if you already had her number I'm sure it would be fine to ask for it again, just tell her you lost all your numbers and she'll understand.

[FunTykoon]

I suppose it depends what it was, a simple "You look nice today" can be very sweet, but often with compliments they can come across a bit creepy or sarcastic, just make sure to be sincere.
And if you already had her number I'm sure it would be fine to ask for it again, just tell her you lost all your numbers and she'll understand.

Like, where would it become creepy?