Relationships Topic

[TP Zelda]

JQ, you shoudn't have done that.

[darkphantomime]

O RLY? Then why'd you bring your friend John along for the ride, eh?

[John-h]

O RLY? Then why'd you bring your friend John along for the ride, eh?

I just registered, for nothing. :P

JQ, you shouldn't have attack us, oh yes, I already read your posts about doing this before I registered.

[TP Zelda]

JQ, stop it. You're not helping anything.
You're being immature.

[Drake OPhile]

O RLY? Then why'd you bring your friend John along for the ride, eh?

He notified me of "the spamming problem" on the GA website, I decided to find the source (here), and told him that I found where the posts were coming from. Neither of us are here for retaliatory purposes. He's probably here for the same reason I am - to see how and why you all are taking the liberty to attack people you don't even know.

Honestly I think this is stemming from a misunderstanding/miscommunication, regardless of whether or not you take my defense at face value or not doesn't matter to me in the least bit - it's a sound defense and it's 100% the truth. I am quite aware I am not playing on "home turf" here seeing as how my ex has several thousand posts and seniority on the forums, plus you all are her friend. She said it herself that she's fine about the breakup and that it doesn't bother her in the least bit, so rather than taking it upon yourselves to attack a forum I really would urge you to consider just letting things stay as they are and go about things as normal. Attacking my website isn't going to solve anything.

[darkphantomime]

The thing is, she still wanted to be friends, but you blocked her from MSN and demodded her, all because she broke up with you. Now if she wants to stay friends with you, you should keep communication channels open and put her back on your moderator team. Your reactions honestly seemed quite petty.

[Pyrgusfinn]

Just as a reminder to all parties, you are beginning to spam this topic.  Although what you are saying is slightly relevant to the topic, I think you really should take it to pms.

[TP Zelda]

*Le sigh*

Stop it, both of you.
It's not gonna get you anywhere...
It's jsut gonna get you a warning.

JQ shouldn't have interfered in the first place.

[Drake OPhile]

The thing is, she still wanted to be friends, but you blocked her from MSN and demodded her, all because she broke up with you. Now if she wants to stay friends with you, you should keep communication channels open and put her back on your moderator team. Your reactions honestly seemed quite petty.

You didn't read my message. I don't know how or why she assumed that I blocked her - because I didn't. Keep in mind apparently she is NOT supposed to be on the Internet during the week, she broke up with me on a Sunday. I've been online mostly every day since then, perhaps less for studying for final exams but still online regardless. She's been offline from Messenger the entire time.

I posted a thread in the staff-only forum on the GA message boards asking her if she wanted to keep her spots there. Here, I have visual proof of my claims to prove my point. Observe the following screencap of GA's staff forum:
http://tinypic.com/r/2uppwuf/5

Note that I asked her on Wednesday May 6th. I gave her a full 2 days, until Friday May 8th before I decided to demote her.

Here is my proof that she had online correspondence with me prior to me posting that:
This link no longer exists.

I will admit before anything else that my timezone is messed up on LJ, that is the incorrect post time by about 7 hours I believe. Regardless of that fact, it was posted the same day that I posted that thread in the staff lounge. She had correspondence with me after she posted that, and I assumed she was simply ignoring the GA website and I took THAT as her resignation.

edit: I am sorry Moderators, this is my last post about the issue. Hopefully the pictures will speak for themselves.

[darkphantomime]

You admitted yourself that she isn't allowed on the internet during the week, so how come you didn't wait until the weekend before demoting her? The sequence of events does not add up, I can only conclude that you did so because she broke up with you.

[Drake OPhile]

You admitted yourself that she isn't allowed on the internet during the week, so how come you didn't wait until the weekend before demoting her? The sequence of events does not add up, I can only conclude that you did so because she broke up with you.

If you want to shoot holes in my "logic" then I will do so to yours. Clearly by poking around on LiveJournal she is in violation of the rule to begin with, therefore if she is checking messages on LJ on the 6th (also 7th and 8th) then chances are she will be checking messages on GA... at least by my reasoning at the time - I have since learned otherwise and admit that I was incorrect in assuming that.

I realize you are sticking up for her because she is your friend and I respect that because I would do the same for my friends and I am not here to attack you. Like I said, I was only here to politely ask the influx of users to stop, and it has and I do appreciate it. You can believe I did whatever I did for whatever reasons you choose to believe - I am not here to say my side of the story is correct because both sides have their truth, all I want is to be left alone and that is all. This is all just a big mess and I sincerely do not want it to get ugly. I have been dealing with the breakup on my own, and I just want it to have ended peacfully and on good terms, and to be left to my own thoughts - by Fiskers, by my own friends pestering me about it, and by this forum.

[Pyrgusfinn]

I declare an end to this conversation with my imaginary powers.  It has gone too far and needs to be dropped. Thank you.

[Drake OPhile]

I declare an end to this conversation with my imaginary powers.  It has gone too far and needs to be dropped. Thank you.

Haha I'm done. I'm sorry, I said the post with the pictures was my last one about the issue - I should have stood by that claim.

I would also like to apologize to Fiskers for the apparent misunderstanding regarding, well, everything.

[Darth Wyndisis]

I declare an end to this conversation with my imaginary powers.  It has gone too far and needs to be dropped. Thank you.

This is probably a bit late, but yeah, I second that.  It's best we just let this go.

[Fishalicious]

I'm sorry about all of that, I really am. /: I don't mean to bring irl drama into my forums, I just had to do a short rage burst last night because, imo, that was really uncalled for. He knows better than anyone that I can't get online during the week, so it was just poor judgement to make a post for me to decide whether to go or stay. (Not that there was any reason I would leave- personal business has nothing to do with internet business.)

There was a miscommunication on both our parts, and I'm sorry for brashly stating them aloud here. I never saw the posts in the moderator's forums because I usually check GA logged out.


ALSO, HI DRACOPHILE, REGARDING F-LOCKED POSTS ON LJ... they are friends-locked for a reason, private matters should remain private. don't do that again, bro. especially since i posted that at school.



Bawwww. I'm sorry for bringing this up here in the first place now, but I needed to vent. I guess I shouldn't do that anymore here... thanks for keeping it (somewhat) civilised here while I was gone, though I don't approve of sending out friends against friends. :c (it means a lot to me to know that you're watching out for me~)

MOD EDIT: I personally find using His name in that way a little offensive. No warning, but...this is more for my comfort than anything, sorry. :/