Something's odd

[alical]

I can't be arsed with this stuff.
I have no fricking idea whats going on, but whatever.
You're all judging Nabooru without even knowing WHY she said anything. Surely you have some witty quote about judgement Hi no Seijin?
Just leave them to it, its no one elses problem but theirs, they'll sort it out if need be, and if not, then thats their choice, so stop jumping to conclusions and stay out of it.

[Rev Rabies]

it's not just their problem though. Nabooru told ZV she wants him to die. Now i've had that said to me before. as a matter of fact someone threatened to kill me yesterday. It's not a good feeling and you say we don't know why she said it but that's because she won't tell us.

[saria..]

whoah!
i have no idea whats going on on but...

[Hi no Seijin]

I can't be arsed with this stuff.
I have no fricking idea whats going on, but whatever.
You're all judging Nabooru without even knowing WHY she said anything. Surely you have some witty quote about judgement Hi no Seijin?
Just leave them to it, its no one elses problem but theirs, they'll sort it out if need be, and if not, then thats their choice, so stop jumping to conclusions and stay out of it.

It's sort of hard to judge Nabooru knowing why she said anything when she won't talk to us.  Like I said, to succeed at talking things out, all parties need to be willing to cooperate.  Nabooru won't let talking things out work because she won't let it work.  And as I said, ZV is my friend, so it is my problem also.  Are you honestly saying you never went to the defense of a friend in trouble?  Because you certainly have done so just now.  I would love to say that Nabooru is a friend also, but her unforgiving attitude has sort of been stopping me from doing so.

[Zelda Veteran]

Okay let me just say "WOAH". I had no idea megan was so hateful. she used to be nice. But wanting someone to die? Thats cruel! And I really couldnt care less if you leave or not. I cant believe you. Im truly speechless. I was scared last night, because when you said

Nabboru: I hope you die
Zeldaveteran: be careful, god might answer you
Nabooru Good.

And I know god likes to prove his existance every now and again, and i was actually afraid to eat. I really thought God would strike me down, until Hi no Seijin helped me out. Hi no Seijin. Thats a true friend Nabooru. You need to grow up. Really. And its true that few of you may not know what's going on. However I see that you dont care about anyone but yourself, and you always see the bad side of things. Nobody here treats you like crap, but after that, they should. You shouldnt want anyone to die. There are some people i really hate. Like a lot. But I wouldnt wish the angel of death to visit them. Really, we just tried to be your friend. Im not going to say anymore than that.

[Jack]

Alright, here's what I have to say about this.

This is all based on an issue which sprung up outside of TDC, through PMs or AIM conversations. This matter really should not have entered the sphere of the forums and been discussed publicly. Why? Because when you bring personal matters to the forums, the members divide along those lines, and everyone gets worked up about it.

Remember the golden rule: if you having nothing nice to say, don't say it at all.

If you don't like somebody at these forums, don't talk to them. It's really that simple. Reply to their topics, engage in the same conversations, but don't pm them or respond directly to them if you and them cannot even talk without the underlying current of that argument bubbling up.

It is inappropriate to say you want someone to die, but it didn't happen here at the forums (as far as I know, am I wrong?) so there's nothing I, as a mod here, can do about that.

What I'm trying to say is that I can't ban Nabooru for saying she wants to ZV to die, because it didn't happen here. And even then, that's a warnable offence. I can ban someone for flagrant abuse of the rules or harassment of other members, extending the enmity of a private conversation to the forums. But Nabooru didn't bring the topic up here, so that point is moot.

Anyways, my judgement of the matter is the following: two warnings for Nabooru for excessive use of profanities. I'm not picking on you Nabooru, but really, two f-bombs and two fudgecakes in one post is excessive.

Listen, I'm trying to promote harmony here. I want everyone to get along, and like any other grouping that involves human interaction, there's tensiosn that have to be worked through. There are only two options: one, continue ahead as if the incident never happened and let the tension heal over time, or two, forgive those who you feel have transgressed against you and move on.

I'm sure some will think that I'm playing favorites here or being either too harsh or not harsh enough, and I'll take those criticisms. I'm trying to strike a happy medium here. If there any problems with my ruling, please PM me and vent your frustration there, rather than doing it here at the forums, because that will cause more tensions.