Relationships Topic

[DW]

yea, but I get nervous about that sort of thing actually talking to her. I find it easier to send in message.

I sense a productive relationship in your near future.

[JDog]

Well, actually, I don't have her number anymore because my old cell phone died horidly, and I had to get a new one. so yea, the next time I talk to her, which is hopefully soon, I'll get it from her.

[MagmarFire]

Mags, don't bother thinking about a relationship when you're talking to her. You can think about that later. For now, just think of her as a friend and learn stuff about her. If you like what you find out, just be honest and tell her. Does she know you're autistic? If so, she should understand that you have trouble with these things.

Ah, how do I say this...? Well, it's kind of hard for me to think of her as a friend if I hardly know her. Hence the reason why I don't know if she's being serious or not. Other than that, though, I like the process you're describing. To put it into practice...THAT'S going to be a bit tough.

[DW]

Just talk to her. You aren't obligated to go out with her. Only do what you're comfortable with. If you're too shy or nervous, just tell her that. You don't owe her anything whether she likes you or not. Just find out who she is, and if you like her then there you go. If not, that's fine too.

[JDog]

Im going to have to agree with shika on this one mags, trust me, I've been their before.

[MagmarFire]

Well...all right. Here's hoping she says hi again to put the ball in the court. Thanks, guys. ;)

[alex]

yea, but I get nervous about that sort of thing actually talking to her. I find it easier to send in message.

wait wait wait, u asked her out in a message??
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dont ever ask a girl out in a message!! u have to do it in person. girls like it when u do it in person. it makes u look outgoing and sutff... its just more, idk, romantic or something... (tip for guys who have yet to ask a girl out)

[DW]

Their entire relationship so far exists online, alex...

Also, Mags, what did you do the first time she said hi...?

[MagmarFire]

Er...well, actually, the first thing she really said to me was, "I think you're cute," or something along those lines. You get the gist of it. Another reason why I'm unsure whether she's sincere. I mean, who says outright to people, "I think you're cute," and means it? no one :-[

To answer your question, though, I said, "Glad to hear it!"

When she actually said hi, I said hello back. Too indirect? :-\

[Hi no Seijin]

You're right, MagmarFire.  They say it to your sister behind your back and mean it.

[alex]

Their entire relationship so far exists online, alex...

oh, musta skipped over that part  ;)

[JDog]

Well, its not my fault we live in seperate towns and neither of us have a car yet. But I will soon.

[DW]

Apparently it isn't resolved. He started calling again yesterday, and now she's feeling sick from the stress.

[MagmarFire]

And yet she's still trying to put up with it? Does she feel that she deserves it?

[DW]

She's too nice to do anything about it. *sigh*