Relationships Topic

[MagmarFire]

I dont like love. A girl asked me out in the seventh grade, when I said no she stopped coming to school. Then I found out she tried to commit suicide. :'(
Gawd, then I gave a picture to the girl I liked as a christmas presant and when I turned around after talking to my friends, I saw her rip it up and throw it away  :'(
Love hates me.

Wow, I'm sorry... I'm speechless about that. Suicide...not funny stuff at all. Ripping up that picture...man, I hate to imagine how much of a blow that must've been to you... ???

[DW]

I've had relationship suicide experiences too, trust me, they suck.

[Fishalicious]

So... have I. It sucks so bad... especially because, you know, you don't LOVE them, but for them to kill themselves... it's a lot of responsibility.

I mean, it's the sort of stuff that haunts you for your life.

Of course, people who commit suicide because they were rejected... well, I'd have to say that they may as well die. I don't like people like that... the people who would be so stupid as to kill themselves because someone they like doesn't like them back. It's not like you can't be friends or anything.

u___u; that's my honest opinion on the matter.

.. and the picture thing? I've had a similar event take place, as well. I was halfway through with a picture for them and they yelled at me about it... because I wasn't doing it their way. because I made the person in my style. because I drew them in different clothes. because I wasn't colouring with high-quality pencils.

I quit drawing the picture and ripped it up and threw it away. then they got mad at me for that.


man, I haaate women.

[Takun]

Yeah, Ive yet to find a girl. Im like the anti Cassanova. ;)

[DW]

The whole suicide thing is actually what happened to me and Jen.

[Takun]

Yeah, it was a very bad experiance for me, mostly because I blamed myself for her issues. And it didnt help that she came back to school this year.

[darkphantomime]

And how many girlfriends have you had, JQ?

Absolutely none. I try to get a little smooth on them, but alas, 'tis only good for quick, fun impressions.

Of course, I've err...  tried to get a close (female) friend to like me in a romantic context, but she still would say stuff in a playful manner, like 'loser', or other funny little things. Heh, we all have friends of the same sex that we're particularly close to, the same should be said between me and her.

I tried to make friends at this college I went to... Unfortunately, that didn't work out too well...

What I said before wasn't exactly a joke thjough...

[MagmarFire]

The whole suicide thing is actually what happened to me and Jen.

Wait, what!? :o

Jen's suicidal? Or is it a third party who is?

Erm, if I'm being to nosey, you don't have to answer. :P

[Aureliano]

Wow, I never knew some people had girl problems this bad.  My friends worst girl problem was being dumped after being together for a year.  Mine was moving to Georgia when I was perfectly happy with a beautiful girl I thought was my equal.

Don't worry you guys, I am here to help :)

[DW]

The whole suicide thing is actually what happened to me and Jen.

Wait, what!? :o

Jen's suicidal? Or is it a third party who is?

Erm, if I'm being to nosey, you don't have to answer. :P

Well, starting on New Year's, she would call every night and talk about how nobody cared about her and noone would miss her if she was gone, and no matter what I said she would say I'm lying. We had these conversations for hours each night. Then on my birthday she called and we went through the entire thing again, and my parents got REALLY angry. It's...Hard to deal with something like that. She made it feel like it was my fault she was feeling that way, that I wasn't doing enough.

[MagmarFire]

Sounds to me like she's wanting you to keep telling her that what she says about no one loving her is untrue so she can get a morale boost. Possible, I guess...but what do I know?

[DW]

I dunno, but...She kept saying it didn't seem like I cared about her.

[darkphantomime]

Maybe it's time she started seeking professional help? It can help... a little bit... well, that and medication...

*coughcough*

Not that I've ever been through that sort of thing myself. Just saying.

And Aureliano - is part  of your statement referring to me? Heh... What'd you think about what I had to say?

[DW]

I keep urging her to seek help and get some medication, the same with her dad, I've even had ZV call and talk to her. My stepdad also has depression, and he uses medication for it. He's good most of the time.

[Aureliano]

I've read several posts about girl problems here, not just yours.

And I think it is amazing someone out of high school hasn't had a girlfriend.  That, of course, is my own personal opinion, and I do not mean it as an insult.