Relationships Topic

[MasterKeyX]

She shouldn't keep regurgitating that on you. Not cool.

[Axel]

Oh that... well things like that happen sometimes, but still, that did happen two years ago. Plus she was one of my first friend's I had in Highschool. And I was one of the first she met. Idk why she just doesn't like me that way, why can't it be like the movies, where you meet a girl... its instant love, and yea... never happens in real life. :(

[DW]

well if she likes you and you like her go for it.

Well thats just it, she doesn't like me in that way... and its really depressing to me...

And what about this girl you loved right when you met her? Jdog, you're taking stuff too seriously. And it doesn't always have to make sense who you like. There's just a...spark. It happens between certain people, you never know who it's going to be with. People always say they never see me and Bri together. Stuff just happens a certain way, you can't always explain it, and there's no point in worrying about it because it won't change anything.

[Axel]

Yea, I guess I understand what you mean, but still... it does hurt that she doesn't like me the way I do. or did, idk which.

[Brizzy]

I can understand being hurt, it's poopy that she doesn't feel the same, but if you're thinking you aren't good enough, know that is a big old smelly turd. That comment may have seemed out there, but I've found when people are hurt by not being liked back they sometimes jump to not being good enough. Which is feces, no one is better than anyone else, although some people are more well off. Does that make sense? I dunno. I find the good guys are the ones always doubting their own worth, while the cruel ones are there boasting about themselves(and mean it.)

[MasterKeyX]

Nice forceful post! I like it! You should listen to her..

But edit out the word crap. I don't want you to get warned.  ;)

[DW]

You can't get warned for the word 'crap'. If so...well, that'd kind of be screwed up what with some of the words we do allow.

And Jdog, if you've been friends with her this long, why not just be glad you have her as a friend? I mean, she seems like a really good one. Even if she's not romantically interested, you're lucky to have her, and she'll be there to help you with other relationship problems you may have.

[Brizzy]

Well just in case I editted out all my dung.

[DW]

Just a bit of advice to all the guys. Don't try to be everything. You can't. It just leads to problems. If other people tell you you aren't doing enough for your girlfriend...well, don't trust them. They don't see everything. Relationships take trust. That includes trusting each other to say if there's a problem. If she's not saying something's wrong and someone else is...well, just keep going with what you're doing. You try to patch up problems that aren't there, you end up getting frustrated. Things get blown out of proportion, feelings are misconstrued...it just doesn't end well.

[MagmarFire]

Advice duly noted.

Did something happen to acquire this information?

[DW]

Yes, something did happen. I kind of screwed everything up.

[MagmarFire]

Aw, crap... ???

Does that mean everything's beyond repair?

[DW]

I'm not sure if it is or not. I mean, the way things were before was awesome. But, I guess...I got to the point where I realized just how much I enjoyed the relationship. You know, we really connected. I guess then, I started to get a little afraid of screwing it up. So then when some of my friends started saying she didn't seem too happy with me, I got afraid I wasn't doing enough. I started seeing all my flaws and trying to cover them up, and it just started this huge chain of events that got worse with time and eventually trashed it. I kinda wish I could go back, but I'm not sure if she would want to. I wouldn't blame her if she hated me, honestly.

[MagmarFire]

Geez, the domino effect, eh? Sorry about that, man. :-*

[Zoratunic]

There is this one girl who I've wanted to ask out for a while, you know, to just go see a movie or something like that. But it seems as though I always forget to get around to calling her.