Relationships Topic

[Vaati]

Yeah, my friend would hook people she knew up with blind dates. I told her to never do that with me.

[MasterKeyX]

Blind dates never work. I mean, if you think about it, you basically go on a date with someone you have never met before and... well, you'd really have nothing to talk about because it would be kinda awkward. You're better off going out with someone you know. Or at least know well.

[MagmarFire]

Anyways, yeah, but I'm just really uncomfortable in your average situation... ugh, people scare me, to be honest. I can't stand touching, speaking, anything, really. Skin is filthy...

SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS!!!!!! :D

I think much of that is a big reason why I'm not much into flirting, really...

[DW]

Blind dates never work. I mean, if you think about it, you basically go on a date with someone you have never met before and... well, you'd really have nothing to talk about because it would be kinda awkward. You're better off going out with someone you know. Or at least know well.

They could work. You may be set up with the perfect person. Blind dates can be fun if you have nothing to do, but I wouldn't rely on them for long term relationships unless you really hit it off.

[Zelda Veteran]

I don't need blind dates. I find the perfect girl for me my own way. Of course, when I get too lonely, all I have to do is walk into the mall, and drop a bunch of stuff. A bunch of girls rush over to help, kill eachother over me, and the last one standing earns dinner  :P :P :P

J/K DON'T EVER TRY THAT :P

[DW]

lol wait you're only joking? So am I the only one who can make any woman faint at the sight of me? Wow, I feel sorry for you guys now..

[JDog]

Nope, women just run from me. ;D

[MagmarFire]

I think I'm rather invisible to women, actually... Maybe my feelings conflict to the point where there's a "feedback loop" that makes it stay that way? It's not like I can just WALK UP to a girl I like without fearing that she'll identify my feelings. :-X

[DW]

Why is it so bad if they know you like them though?

[MagmarFire]

I guess it's because I don't like the thought of rejection. Plus, if they do know, then I'm afraid that their personal views about me will change, and not in a positive way!

Besides, I don't really know how to come across to them about my feelings. Do I say it directly or indirectly? And I dislike both to an extent, but one of them is required. But that's when I get to the problem of the fear of rejection.

[Rev Rabies]

i agree with you there magmar, i have been told by guy and girl alike to be subtle about telling them, my direct policy doesnt work well

i too fear rejection, but the more you get rejected, the less it hurts, trust me

[DW]

Why would they get a negative opinion of you if they figure out you like them? They'll probably think it's sweet.

[JDog]

I guess it's because I don't like the thought of rejection. Plus, if they do know, then I'm afraid that their personal views about me will change, and not in a positive way!

Besides, I don't really know how to come across to them about my feelings. Do I say it directly or indirectly? And I dislike both to an extent, but one of them is required. But that's when I get to the problem of the fear of rejection.

Don't worry mags, I've been rejected like 5 times this month, its not so bad, but its still not fun. expecially when its a girl you really really like.

[Baka Nezumi]

Why would they get a negative opinion of you if they figure out you like them? They'll probably think it's sweet.

Usually, it makes their opinion of you more positive. Who doesn't like to know that someone thinks they're special?
And, yes. Shika, you were absolutely right. At least for me and 99% of all the girls I know.

[JDog]

Why would they get a negative opinion of you if they figure out you like them? They'll probably think it's sweet.

some girls at our school just aren't very nice, I can name a few of them too, but the ones I do talk too, are pretty cool.