Relationships Topic

[darkphantomime]

No matter how much wit, charm or whatever other factor one has, loneliness will always strike to ruin things. Some people just have very bad luck.

Well, I at least hope that tacheon has better luck in the future with women... considering some of the stuff that's happened :\

[DW]

JQ, that's not true. Things aren't always ruined, and when they are it's usually not just bad luck or 'loneliness'. I screwed up mine, I can hardly write that off as bad luck.

[MasterKeyX]

Yeah, don;t be so negative. Negativity doesn't help anything, and it certainly won't help you to get a mate.

Positivity, friends.

[darkphantomime]

It was bad luck that the door happened to be open; it was bad luck that she saw you. That what happened the way things happened is an incidence of bad chance.

[Keaton]

Wait

JQ

Who are you talking to again

[darkphantomime]

Talking about Shika.

[MasterKeyX]

Yeah, but there is bad luck and good luck in life. If you focus only on the abd you'll never get anywhere.

[DW]

Exactly. And the fact that I had any relationship at all with someone as amazing as her was good luck. A lot of it, too.

[darkphantomime]

I've never been in any type of relationship with anyone before. This is the reason why I feel so jaded and negative and mention the 'bad luck'. I want to have relationships with women... but because of my hearing disability, a lot of the social growth you guys have, is lost to me. I didn't really have a social life :\ summers were always lonely, school was always lonely... when I got home from school was usually the loneliest time of all.

[MagmarFire]

I never said that I had a lot of social growth... You aren't alone there.

[Fishalicious]

Forgot to say this, but... uh, my friend Justin sort-of asked me out. Like, my dad won't let me date him, but he says he's willing to wait.

For a few weeks I was really nervous about the whole thing - I mean, I don't know if I'm cut out for a relationship (I'm really not the relationship type) but last night at our Homecoming football game, I was waiting for my friend to get back (It was like... an hour before the game started) and I suddenly called him (which I never do) and talked with him and he eventually came to the football game and we just.... hung out (I stay for the band :B) and stuff.

I was really unsure about it for a while, but now I'm willing to say that I'm willing to try... and if it doesn't work out, we can still be friends, you know?

[Keaton]

Forgot to say this, but... uh, my friend Justin sort-of asked me out. Like, my dad won't let me date him, but he says he's willing to wait.

For a few weeks I was really nervous about the whole thing - I mean, I don't know if I'm cut out for a relationship (I'm really not the relationship type) but last night at our Homecoming football game, I was waiting for my friend to get back (It was like... an hour before the game started) and I suddenly called him (which I never do) and talked with him and he eventually came to the football game and we just.... hung out (I stay for the band :B) and stuff.

I was really unsure about it for a while, but now I'm willing to say that I'm willing to try... and if it doesn't work out, we can still be friends, you know?

Congratz, Fiskas!  Just know that no matter what anyone says, if a relationship doesn't work out-- there's ALWAYS going to be at least a little bit of awkwardness, but it's always going to be worth the try.

[MagmarFire]

Freaking awesome! I wish you guys luck if the wait is successful. :)

[alical]

Well done! I hope it works out!

Ugh I met up with a guy a couple of weeks ago, it wasn't really a date we just walked around the Canters for like an hour and talked. I hadn't told any of my friends on purpose because most of them knew him and I didn't know if it would work out but OF COURSE we bumped in to three of my friends while we were there and they like screamed. So I had to endure a week of people asking me if I was going to meet up with him again (which I was NOT) and about how cute we looked together. The guy was okay, lived in the Middle east but boards at a school near where I live, likes Classic Rock. But he was quite boring, and he didn't call me so yeah...
My love life sucks.

[darkphantomime]

You must approach your love life with a new vigour! You must seize a love and bring out your experiences, rather than wait an infinite length of time for a relationship to appear out of nowhere.