Relationships Topic

[Keaton]

I too have a problem.

There's this girl who's been hitting on me since the beginning of the grade, and I don't like her. I have a girlfriend, but the girl doesn't get it. She sees us talking all the time and hugging, but she's still hitting on me. Also, she talks to my girlfriend every day about me and how the moves she's been making are working. I can't get her to go away, and she hasn't been getting the hint. I hardly even knew she liked me until my GF started telling me about her fawning over me each day.

I've been ignoring and avoiding her, but I have a class or two with her and see her often during the day.

Assistance would be greatly appreciated.

Is the saying that to your girlfriend because she's stupid, or because she's trying to intimidate her?

If the first, tell her that you're just not interested in her but you appreciate the compliment.

If the second, tell that chick to **** off.

[DW]

Or you could just, I don't know, not do anything because it isn't a big deal. You aren't going to cheat on your gf and you're a freaking middle schooler anyways. 'Hitting on you' can mean absolutely nothing at that age.

[cacturnerules]

Well, we're both annoyed, and I keep being made fun of.

But you may be right.

[MagmarFire]

^Being made fun of by whom?

[Brizzy]

A few things:

People sometimes put so much stock into relationships because it is all they have. Their boyfriend/girlfriend is their support system, the person who is always there. The one who stands up for them and sometimes stands for them. Sure, you might say, "Hey there is always someone else," but there isn't someone else at the time and they need the support now. OR you might say, "It can't be all you have," but sometimes it is. Just because you say it isn't doesn't make it true and even if you say you'll be there for them, how often does that happen? And you cannot fill the role of the missing boyfriend/girlfriend. People always want a happy ending, especially with the high divorce rate, and happy endings take effort and give/take. No relationship is ever perfect.

As for anger after relationships. Sometimes just the sight of the person pisses you off to the extreme. I know that I am a pleaser by nature (do not take that the wrong way) and in relationships I give and give and give until it kills me. I put up with things I shouldn't be it and try to be overly patient, understanding, and comforting. Rarely, that fails and then someone has to let go of the other, reguardless of their feelings for the better.

[Uximadesk]

I'm the whole opposite, I look for a match that accepts me just the way I am, this just because I'm lazy and do not like changing the way I am for someone else. I guess this is my biggest fault relation wise. It doesn't mean that I don't give in a relation, I just won't do it if it conflicts with my principles. Maybe that's why I'm usually not angry when a relation is over.

[The Glamour Nazi]

Yeah the thing with me I'm a mix, I'm willing to change and if the person changes for me in return, Bonus.

I know you can't always change some things (My current problem is my height I'm too tall) But if it's minor and will make you better I say It's fine to change.

[cacturnerules]

^Being made fun of by whom?

Others at school. Alot actually.

[MagmarFire]

Eh, I know how that is... Don't let it get to you.

[The Glamour Nazi]

Eh, I know how that is... Don't let it get to you.

Mags made fun of?

Sexy voice mags?

[cacturnerules]

It doesn't, but it won't hurt for it to stop.  ;)

[The Glamour Nazi]

Dude, I go through a bunch of Flak for having a 13 year old for a GF.

Don't sweat it.

[MagmarFire]

Mags made fun of?

Sexy voice mags?

Even I. ;)

It's just something that one needs to ignore, of course.

[FunTykoon]

Mags made fun of?

Sexy voice mags?

Even I. ;)

It's just something that one needs to ignore, of course.

People make fun of others cause they are jealous.  Maybe their voice isn't as sexy as yours?

[MagmarFire]

It may have been jealousy, but I think it was more likely to be my quirkiness that got me a one-way ticket to Bully Kingdom.