Relationships Topic

[Zelda Veteran]

good God, this one chick won't stay AWAY from me!!!! >:( >:( >:(
Its my ex again, and she's crying to me, because the guy she dumped me for cheated on her. I don't want to be a jerk, but no matter what we go through, she won't stay the hell out of my life :-*
I don't know why, or HOW, but I still... I still kinda... I mean I can't forget about her if she doesn't leave me alone, but...

Here's my advice to you: Don't be afraid to tell her off. Tell her it's her fault she dumped you. It was her mistake, not yours. Tel her you're sorry about the other guy but you don't like her anymore. (If you don't.) She needs to learn to move on.

You don't even know how bad I've been wanting to say something like that, but... I still kind of love her... Its not like you can date a chick for such a long time, and then just forget all the times you shared... I hate my life sometimes ???

[TP Zelda]

And just so you know (for those of you who are like "why the hell is ZV still considering this?") love is blinding. It does things to a guy that he can't describe, no matter how many years of literary school he's had. When you really love(ed) someone it blinds you to reality. I had myself set on avoiding her at all costs, and now look: we're talking again.

Nah, I'm not thinking the thought in parantheses. I, as well as everyone else here, know it's hard for you. After all, you're not weak willed--whenever you go down, you bring yourself back up again. We've all seen it time and time again. It's a good trait to have, ZV. :)

That in itself further proves your point that love is a powerful thing. Very powerful. If you find it hard to resist now, then very few could've resisted it if anyone else were in your shoes back then! Unfortunately, it is indeed fickle, and it can all backfire painfully; I guess in other words, you loved her so much that when she broke away from you, it was like all the love you gave her turned against you.

. . .

Sorry, this is just my interpretation of it. If I'm wrong in anything that I said, ZV, please correct me.

Thats exactly what happened Magmar. She took all the love I had poured out to her over the years, and shoved it back down my throat. It hurts, believe me, and the way you described it hit the dot. And yeah, you have a good point Gaara, but... I just don't know.

I know you still feel and all, but, maybe it'd just be best to forget about it all together. It might make you feel better, and, oh, I dunno... But, as I said earlier, I can't control you. Do what you think is best, ZV.  :)

Now look at that. She acts as if my heart was never in shambles. I really don't know what to make of this situation.  :-*

I'm so very sorry, ZV! /_\ I don't know what to say. This makes me, like, cry inside. >< It makes me... be emo... inside... >< I feel for you. I would really like to help somehow, but, I might make it worse, or-or... I might make you hate me or... I might just completely ruin your life, then you'd block me, or... quit, or-or... >< Ok, I'm just going to shut the hell up 'cause I'm making this worse. >< <> *Bangs head on table*

[Zelda Veteran]

I don't know what to say. This makes me, like, cry inside. >< It makes me... be emo... inside... >< I

Me too Gaara... me too. I would never hate you for like any reason, so don't sweat it. Its the thought that counts.

[TP Zelda]

(Ok I swear that was supposed to be a soft smile for me 'cause it's better than  :) but it's also kinda perfect for this situation and- Ok sorry I'll shut up.)

Ok...  (Ettou... *Nervous laugh* Nothing to say except that... He..hehe... *Gets all comfty in my Akatsuki cloak and hides in a corner* Gomen nasai! I'm being stupid and I just have mixed emotions and- @~@ *Bangs head on wall*)

[MasterKeyX]

ZV, I happen to understand entirely the situation you're in, because I happen to be in on that's exactly the same (only im still with that person).

If I put it into perspetive if that happened to me, I'd comfort her but I'd aslo tell her to buzz off. See I think she's using you for comfort and shes trying to get back together with you for comfort. And she all ready shot you down once, so... I'd say screw that. Be there for comfortbut not for another relationship. Man's gotta protect himself too.

[DW]

Mashterkey? i'sh never hear nushing about you being in a relationship.

[MagmarFire]

Yeah, he's had a girlfriend for...a few months, now?

[JDog]

I think it was more like the whole year, lol, but yea, haven't talked to him in awhile, so not sure. and rabies, the you needing dates in bulletings on myspace aren't usually a good idea, lol, just to warn you.

[Rev Rabies]

actually a girl i really like responded to it, but she isnt in middle school so she couldnt go

[darkphantomime]

Wait, if she's not in middle school, what's stopping her from going? Unless... *GASP!* She's in elementary school! O__O

[DW]

In which case, Rabies would be a pedophile.

[TP Zelda]

HOLY CRAP!! Man, Rabies will do ANYTHING to get a girl... >< Tha's-Tha's-Tha's jus' WRAWNG!! ><

[Rev Rabies]

actually a girl i really like responded to it, but she is in middle school so she couldnt go

fixd

she's in 8th grade

[Bboy94]

I suppose I'm ignored again.

[alical]

Aw no you're not, your question was a bit vague, though...

The guy I like is so strange. He talks too much and gets annoying but I still think he's great. He's in my oppinion gorgeous looking, but everyone else says he aint that special. I wish I had more confidence to do something more than talk to him casually, I hate being shy.

Anyway enough of my ranting. Lets all sit down and talk about our problems!